"The man in the mask is who makes the hero not the mask..."

The human connection is filled with many Colours of the spectrum especially the white light that appears "invisible to The Eye" that portrays the colourful rainbow in the sky through refraction.

In every context, a human communicates within the construction of the social fabric in accordance to the glimpse of their interpretation of that particular communication. While we feel at ease and less guarded, our natural personality may exude. While responding to the relevant nature of the conversation, our natural flair will take shape in relation to the expression that comforts the other connection - that which we all know as empathy.

In a dating situation, for instance, the girl who feels that the guy may be "pushy" on their first date perhaps, she may "put on a mask" as a way to prevent the relationship from being overburdening. In a way, she is guarded and reflects that their relationship at the moment has not reached the depth of connection or understanding.

Taking another situation in context, when a manager has to deal with an overbearing customer, he or she may "react" in a manner that helps to prevent outbursts and understanding of expectations.

Then, where is the line between being "responsive" or being "reactive"?

How does our natural communicative self express our feelings or thoughts?

To ponder further,...

And the importance in Conversations between Couples

How does their communication Color their relationship?

(Exploring in the next memo, on the topic of "Communication")