An illustration of A Couple

Communication as we all already know (been bombarded overly in our day & age), is instrumental in our connections, our relationships especially. Strangely enough, "silence" may dominate a couple.

This may be due to the expectations of an individual, a habit or style of the other...

Misunderstandings happen when we do not understand our partner... "Why did he do this when I was....?!!"

And yes, we seethe under our breath and refuse to talk it through, or we harbor the misgiving and "Think negatively" so, the story goes... And we are unhappy in the relationship, when all we could have done at that point, was to voice out our need and "couldn't we tackle this later?" The urgency of the matter could be a simple "ABC-step" which didn't seem to be of any trouble at that moment to him. Yet, she felt that he had to be aware and attending towards her.

This perhaps would carry on much debates over cuppa sessions with our galfrens (or male bonding outings) for as long as "the story continues..." ??

We feel the need to connect, thence, Commun-i-care-about-the-emos" 😔